Using the Inadequate with Grace

     To say that life is not overwhelming is not even close to the truth. Life is more than overwhelming. To feel as if you are not where you're supposed to be. To feel as if life is not going the way you planned. To feel as if you have messed up your whole life. To feel like you are stuck in the same spots over and over and over. To feel as if you are inadequate. To feel lost because you don't know the plan for your life. To be so confused because you only want to do what God would have you to do. To feel as if you don't deserve love. To feel as if you are behind on your life. To simply not know what is in store. To forget to give the Grace God gives us. To forget we are loved. To know that we are usable. To trust Christ. IT IS OVERWHELMING.

     Lately, I have been struggling with life in general but also inadequacy and not knowing what God has planned for me. We as people tend to compare ourselves to everyone around us, or at least I do. I compare my life to my friends all the time; it's hard not to. I am the only one without a serious relationship, I am the only one who has no idea what I am supposed to do other than serve Christ. I am the only one who doesn't have a career in mind that I am so passionate about. With all of that being said I am having to learn to trust Christ because their lives and their paths are not mine. I am having to learn to be used where I am.

      I strive always to be used in the way God has planned for me, but sometimes (like the past half year) I have struggled with the feeling of not being used how I am supposed to, or feeling very inadequate because of  many reasons... the mistakes I have made, the sins I have committed, people not allowing me to forget who I once was, guilt, shame, etc. That list could go on for miles honestly. But, I have to stop and remember that I am NOT who I once was, I am able to be used by Christ. I am a NEW creation in Him. His Grace for me is far more than I can ever comprehend. He will use me where I am. I only have to be obedient to what He calls me to do. By His Grace I am able to work with the absolute best group of youth students that there is. I was able to apologize to people who I thought would never forgive me. I am able to help plan mission trips with my church. He allows me to be prepared to start bible studies. He can use me if only I let Him. He takes away the feeling of inadequacy. He conquers my fears of not being liked, my fears of not being good enough for others, my fear of leading a group of ladies. He is the conqueror. I just need to be still and be USED where He has me. 

     Where I am does not come as a surprise to Him. He knows my path and I have to learn to trust Him and be patient in Him. (Anyone who knows me knows I am not not patient.) I often feel so lost, not enough, unqualified and lacking in every way but that is not how Christ intends for me to be. He doesn't call the qualified; He qualifies the Called.

      As overwhelming as life can be, as much as you can feel lost or like God doesn't have a plan for you; let Him use you where you are. It is tough (especially when people know who you once were) but HE can USE you. I always say "if Christ can change Saul to Paul, then I know He can use me." I have to remind myself of that very often. His Grace is so sufficient and His Mercy is new every day. Which is so beautiful because those two things show how much His love for us is. 

      Grace. To tell you that I have received more grace than anyone would not even touch the truth. I have received more grace than anyone that I know. God has shown me what it is to feel His grace but not only that He has taught me what it is to give it more freely than I ever thought possible. I strive to give it as much as He freely gives it to me. I am not always the best but I do know how much I receive it. I pray He continues to show me His grace, mercy and love more than I can comprehend and I pray He continues to teach me to give all of those more freely than I sometimes do. I pray that over you as well. I pray that whoever reads this knows how much Grace, Mercy and Love God has freely given you and I pray that you strive to give it away. (even when it's hard)

          So, if you are like me, please know that you are not alone in these feelings of inadequacy, guilt, shame, being unusable, feeling like you are your past mistakes. You are usable, you are needed, you are so much more than your mistakes, you are not your shame or your guilt. You are enough in Christ. You are NOT inadequate. He will use you if you let Him. I had a friend tell me that not too long ago and it has been sticking in my head. I just need to let Him use me where I am for now. 

     Be used where you are until He moves you elsewhere. 

 Please know if you ever need someone who listens to whatever you have to say I am always an open ear. I will be glad to listen, talk, cry and pray with you. Whatever you may need. 

    

  That's all the rambling I have for now.

     Until Next Time,
  -- The girl who feels inadequate and is trying to be used.